Nick Hudis author and mentor to men

​Empowering the whole man

In 20 years as a therapist I've learned that men need something different to rise to the big challenges in life: sex and relationships, work and life purpose, anxiety, depression, anger and so on.

​That's why I created ACTION CENTRED THERAPY (ACT).

ACT supports you to live a purposeful, skillful, responsible life, to  take care of your body and... to be a great lover! ​Whether you want to go from crisis to coping or from good to great, I offer you my 1:1 counselling, online trainings and writings as a challenging, inspiring, creative approach to real world living.

Read about how a shy Mr Nice Guy became a counselor to other men and the five vital lessons I learned on the way.

I Found A New Girl Friend

Working with Nick was inspiring and life-changing. Daoist and Tantric traditions, Eastern herbal knowledge, up-to-date biochemistry - Nick knows it all, communicating it in a clear, accessible manner, plus breathing exercises and energy work. Fantastic!

Immediately afterwards I went on a singing workshop and came away with a new girlfriend. I credit Nick's approach.

James , Muscian

Free From Porn

I was going crazy with porn. Just out of control. You showed me how I was trying to numb out old emotional scars. I've learned how move on and overwrite my self-destructive habits with positive ones. I can't tell you how grateful I am.

Raj , University Professor

Bouncing Back After Divorce

Nick's Natural Virility approach really works. I've lost weight, I'm sleeping better, I'm no longer depressed and I'm enjoying work again.

What's best, I'm getting morning wood, noticing women and keen to get on the dating game. I know Nick will help with that too.

Mike , Small Business Owner
How to Make Love to a Woman with your Soul

Sacred sexuality for men. Become a Master Lover.  Experience new levels of intimacy and bliss. 

How to Last Longer In Bed - new book to beat premature ejaculation

Overcome premature ejaculation.  Fully satisfy your partner... and yourself. Get the  love life you deserve.  All in this groundbreaking new book.


Sit, Breathe - Mastering Meditation

If you've ever thought you'd like to try meditation.  If you've tried and it hasn't worked.  It's time to discover true tranquility, mindful presence and unlock your inner power.


How To Talk To Yourself

How to Last Longer In Bed - new book to beat premature ejaculation

You say the most terrible things to yourself in the privacy of your own head.  Maybe you've found  Affirmations and Positive Thinking aren't all they're cracked up to be.  Well it's time to kill the Inner Critic and stop sabotaging yourself - Learn The True Art of Running Your Mind